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Kelli C's avatar

Hugs Nora and Jon. Moving on is bittersweet. I awoke on Saturday to an email giving me 90 day non renewal notice on my apartment. This will make the 3rd unwanted move in under 24 months. Sigh. I am holding on hard to “It always works out”, see our comment on “I don’t know, it’s a mystery?” from a couple weeks ago. In the back of my mind I have been contemplating a cross country move to Indiana to combine finances with my child who is working through a PhD program. Now I am searching to see what pieces fall into place.

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CarolV's avatar

It touches my heart that you and Jon left the land more beautiful and abundant than when you arrived. I haven’t had time to read all of your posts since you found out you would have to relocate. Last I read, your landlord or part of his family would be reclaiming the house. I hope they appreciate all you did to care for the place.

I know good byes to spaces and places can be sad and bittersweet. There have been departures when I packed, barely paused, and drove off. That was my initial move to CA driving a 1966 Dodge Dart without AC alone all across the US in May of 1980. I do think that departure was harder on my mother, but she had left her home state too so she never told me how hard it was until years later.

There were other places when I took the moment to sit alone in the space one last time. The first one I deeply recall was a space where I’d taught sewing classes starting within a few months of landing in LA. The classes were going to continue in another location. Looking back I see why it felt so important to say good bye to the space because it was there that I first met friends who are still my friends to this day.

After the movers and haul away guy have vacated the things, I encourage you and Jon to take a few minutes to honor the space. Laugh, cry, whatever feels right. I trust you will have a marvelous new chapter and thanks to the blessing of the internet you won’t be disappearing.

I send you love and blessings for safe travels and marvelous adventures💕

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